Tuesday, September 04, 2007 . 12:04 AM

In misunderstandings, alot of times, it's not you don't understand others, or others don't understand you.

It's because there is doubt in between, either from you or others. (Let's take the case of "you")

Strange huh? When you know tt you understand others, yet still doubt.

However, Truth and False are flipsides.

That is just too terrifying.

When it comes to that, you are "lost". Not exactly, coz your "self-protection instict" tells you to doubt.

But recently i thought of something. About Doubts.

Know that when you doubt others, there will be two outcomes. Your doubt is true, or false.

If your doubt is true, congrats, what are you going to do next?

Forgive? Make the culprit pay? Cut off the friendship?

If your doubt is false, congrats, what are others going to do next?

Forgive? Lose faith in you? Cut off the friendship?

Either way it doesn't look nice eh? One of you have to forgive in the end...

Things will hurt if none of you wants to forgive..

You always have to doubt yourself first, in order to doubt people.

Sadly when knowing this, nobody can completely not doubt people.

We've all lived life by not knowing how to do the simplest and best thing.

Sad.